Non-Binary Name Changes: A Practical UK Guide

For non-binary individuals, a name change is often more than just a re-branding exercise; it is an affirmation of existence. Finding a name that fits—whether it is gender-neutral, unique, or simply yours—is a moment of joy.

However, taking that new name and applying it to the rigid, binary paperwork of the UK government can be frustrating. While society is moving forward, many official computer systems are still stuck in the "Male/Female" era.

The good news is that changing your name is the easy part. Changing how the system categorises you is where the nuances lie. Here is a practical, honest guide to navigating the UK name change process as a non-binary person.

Step 1: The Name Change (Deed Poll)

Legally, the process for a non-binary person is exactly the same as for anyone else. You do not need a diagnosis of gender dysphoria, you do not need to be on hormones, and you do not need a Gender Recognition Certificate (GRC) to change your name.

The Tool: A standard Deed Poll.

The Privacy Note: We strongly recommend an Unenrolled Deed Poll.
Why? If you "Enrol" your Deed Poll with the courts, your previous name (deadname), new name, and home address are published permanently in The London Gazette online. Most non-binary people prefer to keep their history private. An unenrolled Deed Poll is private, legally binding, and accepted by all UK government bodies.

Step 2: The Title (Adopting 'Mx')

Your Deed Poll is the perfect place to officially adopt the title Mx (pronounced "Mix" or "Mux").

Do I need permission?
No. Titles are not legally controlled in the UK (unlike Peerages). You can start using Mx immediately. Your Deed Poll will state: "I abandon the title of Mr/Miss/Ms and adopt the title of Mx."

Who accepts Mx?
Almost everyone.

• Banks: All major high street banks (HSBC, Barclays, Santander, etc.) accept Mx.
• DVLA: Accepts Mx.
• NHS: Accepts Mx.
• Passport Office: This is tricky. Passports do not print titles on the main data page anymore. However, they will use Mx in correspondence.

Step 3: The Passport Hurdle (The M/F Binary)

This is currently the biggest stumbling block for non-binary rights in the UK.

The Issue:
Despite high-profile legal challenges (such as the Christie Elan-Cane case), the UK government does not currently issue 'X' gender markers on passports. You must choose either 'M' (Male) or 'F' (Female).

Your Practical Options:

1. Change the Name, Keep the Marker: You can update your passport to show your new name and signature, but leave the gender marker as it is. This is the simplest route if you don't want to provide medical evidence.
2. Switch the Marker (M to F / F to M): If you feel more comfortable with the "opposite" binary marker (e.g., an AMAB non-binary person preferring an 'F' marker over an 'M'), you can change it. You will need a letter from your GP stating your change of gender is "likely to be permanent."

Travel Advice:
It is frustrating to carry a document that doesn't reflect your gender. However, be aware that travelling with an 'X' passport (if the UK ever introduces them) can be dangerous in countries with anti-LGBTQ+ laws. For now, travelling on an M or F passport is often the safer, albeit less validating, option.

Step 4: The Driving Licence Hack

The DVLA does not print your gender (or your title) on your driving licence card, which is a relief for many.

However, it is hidden in the code.
Your driver number (the long code on the licence) contains a 6-digit representation of your date of birth.

• Male Code: The numbers match your actual birth date.
• Female Code: The month of birth is increased by 50 (e.g., if born in January, the code says 51).

Can I change this?
Yes. If the "Female" offset makes you dysphoric, you can ask the DVLA to change your number to the "Male" format (which is just the standard numbers). If the "Male" format bothers you, you can ask for the "Female" code.

You do not need a doctor's note for this. Simply write a cover letter with your D1 application explaining that you are non-binary and would like the driver number updated to your preferred format.

Step 5: Daily Life and Banks

Generally, private companies are much faster than the government.

• Banks: Most allow you to change your name and title to Mx in branch with your Deed Poll.
• Utilities: Usually happy to update over the phone or online.
• Employment: Your HR department should update your email, ID badge, and records. However, for HMRC/Payroll purposes, they may still need to use M/F boxes behind the scenes until the law catches up.

Summary

While the UK's systems aren't perfect, you have every right to use a name and title that reflects who you are. A Deed Poll is your first step towards making that reality legal.

Ready to introduce the real you to the world? Contact our team confidentially to order your Unenrolled Deed Poll.